The pastor’s wife seeks advice from Confessions with Ms. Nancy while her husband (the pastor) continues to have sex with female church members.
Osofo Maame went into great detail about how her husband excuses his behavior by claiming that it is a spiritual imperative and utilizes the job as a sexual cave.
“My husband is a well-known pastor. Not just in Ghana but also elsewhere. And a lot of people support our efforts and believe in him. I’m not sure when this behavior started, but I can state that it has been going on for a while.
“We have counselling sessions mostly on Mondays, and sometimes we do Wednesdays. And when it’s a serious situation, he has other days he opens for you to come and see him. All these go on in the church office.”
Osofo Maame revealed that during counselling, her husband preferred to administer the session in privacy with these women without her presence. She admitted she did not find it untoward until she got hold of his phone.
“I never saw any disadvantage with what was going on until one day, I hopped upon my husband’s phone. And I read a message. That is how I found out what was going on. Apparently, there’s a woman who came to see my husband.
“And from their chats, it looks like they are having sexual intercourse. They have been having sex in the office. And the women are more than I can count. From the messages on his phone, he has slept with almost all the women in the church,” she tearfully told Ms Nancy.
She claims that he has slept with minors, including her own goddaughter. However, he shows no regret when asked about it. How can we help her?
“He made her think it’s all a spiritual direction from God. He’s a prophet. He does miracles in church. When I saw the whole thing, I confronted him.
“Thinking he will feel all sorry, say he wouldn’t do it again. But he felt boldly strong about it. He didn’t see anything wrong with it. He was like we give what belongs to Caesar to Caesar,” Osofo Maame concluded.
